About Brenna Doering, LMHC
You've spent your whole life trying to be enough—for your family, your culture, the world around you. You've carried expectations that weren't yours, hidden parts of yourself to fit in, and wondered if there's something fundamentally wrong with you for struggling when it all looks so easy for everyone else.
Hi, I'm Brenna—and as a therapist, I'm here to help you finally understand yourself, release the weight of never belonging, and build a life that feels like yours.
Why I Became a Therapist
My journey to becoming a therapist was... roundabout, to say the least.
After graduating from the University of South Florida with a double major in Criminology and French—two subjects I was absolutely hyperfixated on at the time—I eventually realized these were special interests, but not what I actually wanted to do with my life. Like many of my clients, I felt unsure of what to do or where I fit.
I ended up working at the Unemployment Office of Florida, helping people with their resumes and talking with them about their career plans. I started thinking about wanting to help people in a deeper way, and actually took one of the career assessments I would always recommend to clients. The results came back: social worker, therapist, psychologist, school counselor, professor, teacher. That's when something clicked.
From there, I went to grad school at the University of North Carolina at Charlotte, where I could pursue both Clinical Mental Health Counseling and School Counseling. It wasn't until later that I figured out my "why": I wanted to help people understand themselves better the way I wish someone had helped me growing up.
If I had someone who understood me, maybe I wouldn't have spent so long feeling like there was something inherently wrong with me. Perhaps I'd have believed that even if you're different, that doesn't mean you need fixing or aren't a good human. That's the work I'm now driven to do with my clients.
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For most of my life, I didn't know I was ADHD or autistic. I just knew I felt different, like I was constantly working twice as hard as everyone else to keep up and still falling short.
In my late twenties, I was dealing with intense anxiety that was affecting every part of my life. Through therapy and medication, the anxiety subsided—and suddenly, symptoms I'd never noticed before became impossible to ignore. I was more forgetful, zoning out often, and it felt impossible to keep up with basic tasks. I asked my psychiatrist to test me for ADHD, and there it was. My anxiety had been masking my ADHD my entire life.
Getting diagnosed with ADHD helped me make sense of so much. But there was still something I couldn't put my finger on. About two years later, at 29, I started seeing social media posts about AuDHD (being both ADHD and autistic), and it felt deeply relatable.
I went down that rabbit hole, took assessments, discussed it with my therapist, and realized: I'm autistic too.
That discovery—understanding I'm AuDHD—contextualized everything for me. It explained the push and pull I'd always felt, the contradictions, the exhaustion from masking my whole life. And it deepened my commitment to this work: helping those who can't understand themselves and feel deep shame about not fitting in begin to understand how this world wasn't built for them, to release deeply-ingrained beliefs about your worth, and to begin building a life that finally makes sense for you.
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I'm a first-generation Brazilian American who grew up in Miami, Florida. I speak both Spanish and Portuguese, and I was exposed to so many different cultures from South America growing up. That bicultural experience is something I carry with me in my work.
Many of my clients love that they can speak Spanglish with me. There's something powerful about not having to translate yourself, about being able to switch between languages mid-sentence because that's how your brain works. It's one less thing to code-switch, one less way you have to perform.
Further, I understand what it's like to navigate family expectations that don't leave room for who you actually are. To feel the weight of generational sacrifice. To be queer or neurodivergent in a family and culture where those things aren't talked about or accepted. To be the black sheep, the one who doesn't fit the mold.
That lived experience is why so many of my clients—especially Latine, first-generation, queer, and neurodivergent folks—feel deeply understood in our work together. Because I'm not just learning about these experiences from a textbook. I've lived them too.
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My biggest hope is that you feel comfortable and safe with me. That you don't have to hide any part of yourself. That we can talk about literally anything. I want you to learn to feel safe communicating your wants, needs, and hurts—first with me, then with the people in your life. I want you to walk away knowing that there is absolutely nothing wrong with you, that your feelings are valid, and that you're capable of making your life whatever you want as long as you put in the work to meet yourself where you are.
Therapy isn't about becoming someone else or "fixing" you—because you were never broken to begin with. It's about unlearning the things that taught you you weren't enough, processing the trauma you've been carrying, and finally building a sense of belonging and acceptance from within.
If I had someone who helped me understand myself sooner, maybe I wouldn't have spent so long believing I was the problem. That's what I want to give you: the understanding, support, and tools to finally come home to yourself.
Credentials & Training
Master of Arts in Counseling (concentration in School Counseling) – University of North Carolina at Charlotte
Bachelor of Arts in Criminology and French – University of South Florida
Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in Florida – #MH24341
EMDR trained (currently completing supervision hours for EMDR certification; to be completed by October 2026)
Specialized training in queer-affirming therapy, neurodivergent-affirming therapy, and trauma-informed care
What Therapy with Me Actually Feels Like
Client autonomy is a big deal to me. This is your therapy, and I want it to work for you—not the other way around.
I can be quite direct in a gentle way. I don't want your time to feel wasted, so I'll definitely challenge you if I notice we're avoiding the hard conversations. But I'm also deeply collaborative. If you need more structure, we'll create that together. If you need less, we'll adjust.
I'm innately relational, which means I value discussing the therapeutic relationship whenever necessary. A lot of clients worry they're doing therapy "wrong," so we explore openly what therapy actually looks like—especially if my clients are autistic and need that clarity.
You can bring fidgets, snacks, whatever you need. You can move around during sessions. You can stim freely. This is your space to show up exactly as you are, without masking or performing.
And because I'm AuDHD myself, I truly get what it's like to live life in hard mode without knowing it. You won't have to explain why executive dysfunction makes "simple" tasks feel impossible, or why sensory overload is exhausting, or why masking takes so much energy. I already understand.
What I Specialize In
I specialize in virtual trauma and EMDR therapy, working with adults throughout Florida navigating:
Neurodivergence – ADHD, autism, AuDHD, late diagnosis, masking, burnout
Complex trauma & generational wounds – EMDR therapy, emotionally immature parents, family scapegoat dynamics
First-generation & bicultural identity – navigating cultural expectations, guilt, belonging, breaking cycles
Queer identity work – coming out, family acceptance, building chosen family, intersecting identities
Anxiety & burnout – especially for high-achieving women who've been running on empty
Inner child healing & self-trust – unlearning shame, building self-compassion
Boundary-setting & relationship dynamics – with family, partners, friends, coworkers
People-pleasing & perfectionism – letting go of impossible standards
I’m fully virtual, so whether you’re in Miami, Tampa, Orlando, Jacksonville, or anywhere else within Florida, we can do this work together.
My Approach: How We'll Work Together
EMDR for Processing Trauma
I'm trained in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), which is incredibly effective for processing trauma—especially complex trauma, generational trauma, and the accumulated experiences of feeling "not enough" your whole life.
EMDR works at a neurological level to help your brain reprocess experiences and beliefs that have been stuck. It's not just talk therapy. It's a way to release the grip that past experiences have on you, so they stop controlling how you feel about yourself today.
We'll use EMDR when it makes sense for your healing—targeting specific memories, core beliefs, and the trauma you've been carrying (sometimes for generations).
Neurodivergent-Affirming Therapy
If you're ADHD, autistic, or AuDHD, therapy with me won't pathologize how your brain works. We won't try to make you neurotypical. Instead, we'll work to understand your brain, accommodate your needs, and build strategies that actually work for you.
That might mean:
Understanding your sensory needs and honoring them
Building routines that feel supportive, not restrictive
Working with your executive dysfunction instead of fighting it
Processing the trauma of growing up neurodivergent in a world that told you you were the problem
Learning to unmask, at least in some spaces
If you're AuDHD, finding ways to honor both parts of your brain—the part that needs routine and the part that craves novelty
I want you to learn how to become affirming of yourself as well.
Culturally-Informed, Identity-Centered Work
I'm social justice oriented—specifically liberation and identity focused, with an anti-oppressive, culturally responsive approach. I truly believe the systemic issues of our world and country deeply affect everyone's mental health, so that is something we will talk about in session.
If you're first-generation, Latine, queer, or navigating multiple marginalized identities, we'll address how those intersect and shape your experience. We won't pathologize your family or your culture. We'll work to understand the context—the generational trauma, the survival mode, the limited tools your parents had—while also validating that their struggles don't erase yours.
I’ll meet you where you are and honor where you want to grow, with the benefit that you don’t need to educate me about your cultural background or values.
A Little About Me Outside of Therapy
When I'm not in session, you'll probably find me:
Reading (I read 27 books last year and I'm already 8 books in this year!)
Playing cozy games like Stardew Valley (my current hyperfixation)
Rereading Harry Potter for the 5th, 6th, or 7th time (my longest special interest)
Learning about astrology and tarot (I'm a Leo Sun, Aquarius Moon, Scorpio Rising, and I love discussing this in session as another way of making therapy feel supportive and connected)
Traveling (I've been to so many places in and out of the US—I love exploring new cultures)
Going to concerts, gardening, doing arts and crafts, taking pictures of nature, or just hanging in my hammock
Want to see if we'd vibe? Find me on socials @thats.so.wholesome for more on AuDHD, living with complex trauma, and the intersections of identity and therapy.
you deserve to have therapy with someone that truly gets you
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you deserve to have therapy with someone that truly gets you ~
My Commitment to You
I am queer-affirming, neurodivergent-affirming, and deeply committed to social justice. Therapy with me is collaborative, where client autonomy is centered. I'm here to help you become affirming of yourself—not to tell you who you should be or how you should heal.
You deserve support that sees all of you. Your neurodivergence, your cultural background, your queerness, your family history, your struggles—all of it. Healing happens when you're fully witnessed, not when you're asked to hide parts of yourself to make therapy easier.
Being in my own therapy has taught me so many things. It's helped me understand how my brain works, specifically how ADHD, Autism, and C-PTSD all correlate and what my needs are because of it all. I've learned how to be in relationship with my family without cutting them out and without sacrificing my own wellbeing (a huge feat that is still a work in progress). I've learned how to feel safer in conflict and how to challenge my rigidity. I've learned about so many tools to cope with anxiety, sensory issues, depressive symptoms, and more. And I’m driven daily to put down the mask and empower my clients to do the same.
I know firsthand what it's like to do this work—and I'm committed to walking alongside you as you do yours.
Ready to Get Started?
If you're tired of feeling like you don't belong anywhere, exhausted from trying to be enough, and ready to finally understand yourself—I'd be honored to work with you.
Schedule your free 15-minute consultation, and let's see if we're a good fit. I can’t wait to connect with you!